Before He Chaoqiong came over, Lin Qingxia was a little uneasy. Because she didn't quite understand why He Chaoqiong rushed over to see her. Could it be that she is going to catch a rape? I have become a mistress for no reason? But Lin Qingxia found it strange that Xu Jinyang wasn't nervous at all! "Hey! Why are you not nervous at all? Aren't you afraid that she will catch you?" Xu Jinyang smiled and said: "Actually, I was a little hesitant at the beginning, whether I should approach you, but He Chaoqiong encouraged me to approach you, and then we were together!" Lin Qingxia was very surprised and said: "Why, there are still women who are willing to find women for their men?" Xu Jinyang laughed and said: "You have seen it now, wait a while, when He Chaoqiong comes, you will understand why she is willing to let you join, she really appreciates you!" Xu Jinyang also found it very strange that He Chaoqiong didn't seem to have been so enthusiastic about "Three Three Three" with other women before, maybe she really admired Lin Qinglei. Maybe many women are easy to like Lin Qingxia. When Lin Qingxia was young, her appearance was simply beyond the reach of ordinary people. So in that era, Lin Qingxia was always the shining existence in the eyes of everyone. Many people said that Lin Qingxia was the real goddess back then.
However, she also has many appearances in men's clothing. Speaking of Lin Qingxia's men's clothing, it should be the character of Dongfang Bubai and a dozen other characters of the same type, such as Liuzhiqin Demon. Mr. Jin once praised Lin Qingxia, saying that she is "the girl who looks the best in men's clothing". It is not without reason that audiences like Lin Qingxia, because when she plays men's clothing, everyone feels that there is no sense of disobedience. Of course, she is not as lofty as some stars, if a passerby encounters her when she is filming, she will also greet the passerby very kindly and take a photo. Lin Qingxia has come to Wuzhen almost every year since she served as a judge of Wuzhen Drama Art. Ni Ni, who is Lin Qingxia's number one fan, also met her goddess when she was in Wuzhen! Ni Ni is a first-line actress in the entertainment industry, and she cannot be described as beautiful. Many people say that Ni Ni's appearance is a high-end feeling. When Ni Ni was interviewed in the early years, she revealed that her idol was Lin Qingxia. Unexpectedly, now he not only succeeded in chasing stars, but also became a popular first-line female star in the entertainment circle. Ni Ni has a very good relationship with Li Yuchun, and she is in a relationship with Jing Boran, so I understand. When He Chaoqiong came to Xu Jinyang's villa, he went straight into the hall and came to their master bedroom. At this time, Lin Qingxia was still in that state, she felt a little embarrassed, and quickly covered herself with a quilt. But He Chaoqiong laughed and said: "Sister Qingxia, don't be shy, we are all sisters now, we should be honest with each other!" But Lin Qingxia would never believe that a woman, especially a woman with a very good background like He Chaoqiong, would be willing to share with other women! The wife of Zihan whom I met before had a background far worse than that of He Chaoqiong. Their family is just an agent of SK2, and they are considered rich, but the level of wealth is completely incomparable with the king of gambling. Even so, Zi Han's wife didn't rub her eyes, and went to the set to stare every day, which made Lin Qingxia and Zi Han feel very helpless and unhappy when they played against each other. In fact, in the final analysis, it was because Zihan's wife felt inferior when facing Lin Qingxia, feeling that she could not keep up with Lin Qingxia, and worried that she would be replaced. This is not her problem alone, it is a common problem faced by many wives. In all marital relationships, apart from domestic violence, boredom, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is the most deadly hidden danger, that is the intervention of the mistress, which makes countless wives feel like they are facing a formidable enemy, and often do not know where to start to deal with this difficult and tormenting situation. Reality. Prior to this, Xu Jinyang had analyzed it with a wife who was worried about mistress: "First of all, you must understand that mistress is not equivalent to a form of cheating, it has both mental and physical meanings, and is your substitute in the other party's heart. For example, if you are infertile, but your husband and mother-in-law desperately want to have grandchildren, then this kind of relationship will become very delicate and tense, because you will feel that you are infertile, and your husband will find another woman to replace you at any time. Or if the other party can't feel the emotional needs he needs from you, he will naturally find another person to satisfy his emotional needs. Behind all these roots is essentially a substitution relationship, that is, the other party replaces your status, identity, and everything that should be enjoyed and owned.
This is why once there is a mistress in a marriage, it makes people feel like they are facing the true face of the enemy! So to put it simply, what you worry about is not the appearance of the mistress, but the unwillingness and fear of being replaced! Since none of us want to be replaced by others, the only thing we can do is to constantly improve and learn... The world is about survival of the fittest and natural selection, but we often prefer to lie on the previous credit book and enjoy happiness. For example, in the workplace, you have made outstanding contributions and expect to be content with the status quo, but you don’t want to wait for the person who succeeds you to work hard secretly. In marriage, you promise each other to grow old together. You wash, cook and have children for him. You feel sorry for him. It is not easy for him to earn money to support his family. He wants to increase the income of the family and enter the workplace. He thinks that he has made enough contributions, but he does not want to wait to replace you. The person is fighting fiercely with him because you have paid, so you are not willing to be replaced. This is a very human behavior. If you don't want to be replaced, you must read the following content carefully and engrave it into your brain! The appearance of all the mistresses confirms the saying that flies do not bite seamless eggs. If we regard marriage as an egg, then the little flies will keep looking for food! So instead of wasting energy and trifles, it’s better to calm down and find the reason for the egg, see where it cracked, how to prevent it and mend it, because it’s never too late to fix it! Long-term married life will make both parties aesthetically tired. The originally fiery passion has gradually been smoothed out by life and has become tepid. What is needed at this time is some surprises and romance in married life, and romance is not exclusive to women. It can be a carefully prepared gift for women. her own husband, and this gift will eventually be given back to herself. Communicate indifferently, complain and blame each other, try to empathize more, and form these ways of thinking into a situation. It's you, and you don't want to be accused and complained by people every day. If I praise you and hug you, are you more willing to communicate with me and speak your mind? Marriage needs mutual management. If both parties Being able to communicate in this positive way will only increase the happiness index and quality of marriage!" He Chaoqiong can see the essence of the problem right away, so as Xu Jinyang's fiancée, she is never afraid of being replaced by any woman! He Chaoqiong could see that Lin Qingxia didn't believe her sincerity, and thought she was playing tricks on her. She smiled and said: "I know you have encountered such a thing before, Zihan's wife should have given you a lot of humiliation, making you a bit of a shadow when facing such a thing?" Lin Qingxia looked at He Chaoqiong in surprise, she really deserved to be the daughter of a gambling king, her eyes were sharp, and she could see what was on her mind at a glance, she was really amazing. .