Guan Zhilin found that Li Changsheng had more and more women, and she felt a strong sense of crisis in her heart. She is particularly afraid that she will be abandoned by her father like her mother, so what she can think of now is still the old-fashioned mother is more expensive than her child, and giving Li Changsheng a child can strengthen her position in his heart! Li Changsheng also thought that Guan Zhilin was an old lady in the original time and space, but had no children. Although she earned hundreds of millions, she didn't know who was cheaper! It turned out that in that life, she also admitted in front of the media that the biggest regret in her heart was that she had no children under her knees. Because I don't think too much when I am young, I realize that I have missed the best childbearing age when I reach a certain age. The reason why there is no child under his knees may be a kind of revenge in the dark. In 1985, Guan Zhilin intervened in the marriage between the then real estate tycoon Ma Qingwei and his wife and became a third party. At that time, Ma Qingwei's wife was named Chen Meiqi, who was Xiaoqing in "Legend of the New White Snake", and she was pregnant. Because Guan Zhilin's intervention made this marriage really unsustainable, Chen Meiqi's spirit was hit hard, and finally her body had problems and she had a miscarriage. It may be because of this reason that Guan Zhilin can't be a mother somehow.
It turns out that in that time and space, Guan Zhilin has always been recognized as the number one beauty in Xiangjiang, with cherry red lips and a round face as big as a palm, 03 is like a pool of autumn water revealing a woman's innate charm and tenderness. From an innocent girl to a married woman, Guan Zhilin's cuteness is what she wants to do. Guan Zhilin has no hope of having a baby, because even she herself feels that it is a bit late. In the interview, she brought up the reason for not having children twice. She claimed that she also had the idea of having a baby for 15 seconds, but she gave up again because there is too much pollution in this world, and her only regret is that she didn't freeze her eggs. With the replacement of the times and the renewal of concepts, more and more "goddesses" do not plan to have children. Even though they are all old people in terms of age, they still have charm, and they are exquisite in every way to attract everyone. In the eyes of ordinary people, getting married and having children is a matter of course, because children are the continuation of love, and it is said that "raising children is to prevent old age". But now more and more people choose to live independently, which is not accepted by everyone. There are always some women spreading free speech on the Internet, fooling the majority of women not to have children, this is a big mistake! They clamored: "In the eyes of many people, a woman must live according to the standards of "Three Obediences and Four Virtues" to be a qualified woman. Since there are many definitions of success, why is there only one kind of failure as a woman, and not having children is the biggest failure? I don’t know when “marriage and having children” became the standard for measuring a woman’s success. No matter how outstanding your career is, no matter how rich your life is. If you don't get married and have children when you reach the age when you should get married, then you are a failed woman in the eyes of everyone. For this standard, women dare not speak out, and all rebuttals seem so pale and powerless. " It's really a bit silly to call yourself free like Qin Lan, I hope she will continue to act as a sister and brother for the rest of her life. Fertility is definitely a problem that women cannot avoid. Originally, from a more rational point of view, since a woman chooses to get married, she should have children. Because as a woman, getting married and having children is not only for herself, but also for others to make some contributions to society, reflecting the value of life. Considering from an independent personal standpoint, after marriage, you have a stable partner when you are young, and you support each other and cuddle up to each other when you are old. The birth of a child will fully demonstrate the greatness of a woman's maternal love, and feel the labor and difficulty of maternal love on another level. Even if Li Changsheng does not plan to marry Guan Zhilin, he will still persuade her to have children: "Linlin, it is a very delicate hope to slowly hope that the child will achieve something. Watching the child grow up in his own care Growing up is a sense of happiness that is irreplaceable in any form. This kind of happiness can make you truly feel the meaning of life. On the other hand, getting married and having children will make you spend a lot of energy and work, hiding a lot of Tired and troubled. It is precisely these experiences that make each other cherish and enjoy life and enjoy the happiness of the family. A person who has not experienced family fatigue and hard work cannot appreciate the fulfillment of such a life and the hard-won family. " Of course, whether to be born or not is a choice, it just depends on "willing" and "unwilling". This is everyone's own right, which is a relatively contradictory "standard". Success in career is also success, and full-time mothers raising children are also a kind of success. Rather than worrying about whether women should have children, why has no one thought about why some women do not want to have children now? In past marriages, two people formed a family to help each other, which reduced a lot of life risks. Most of the people in their previous life were farming. One more person means one more helper, and one more child means more labor force. This is why many families have to have children even though they are very poor. In today's life, for many ordinary families, getting married not only has the risk of emptying the family, but also the quality of life will decline after having children. Women are becoming more and more independent, have their own careers and dreams, and women who take on the responsibility of giving birth to a child mean that they have to lose and sacrifice too much. I could have spent more time together after get off work
The evening time is at your disposal. But after having a child, you not only have to take care of the child, but also set the alarm clock in the middle of the night to feed the child. I have been busy working all day during the day, and I still haven't stopped busy when I return home at night. When my child is sick, I ask for leave to go to the hospital. It caused a certain amount of damage to the work, and all my time was dedicated to my children. Especially from pregnancy to childbirth, it takes a year or two to be separated from the whole society. On the one hand, the pressure of life begins to increase after having children, and those whose economic conditions permit are fine, while those whose economic conditions do not permit will lose part of their source of income. I want to be a full-time wife, but I am afraid of losing myself because of trivial matters in the family, and my husband will do things that I am sorry for after losing his charm. The world of adults is all about weighing pros and cons. Once the cons outweigh the pros, many people are unwilling to think about it. In this living environment with growing material desires, girls not only have to invest in themselves, buy bags and cosmetics, but sometimes the expenses are not enough for themselves. Sudden need to raise another child to take care of, giving up the unfettered life is also a factor that cannot be ignored. Today's competition is so big, the slogan "Don't let children lose at the starting line" is getting louder and louder, and a good education and a good living environment have become the goal of everyone's struggle. "The children of elites are all elites, and most of the children of ordinary people are ordinary people." Which parent wants their children to be like ordinary people. Gradually I feel that after the child is born, if there is no good environment and conditions, I simply don't give birth, which is also my responsibility to the child. After marriage, a woman also loses her freedom, her out-of-shape figure, stretch marks on her stomach, and her former charm..." All the problems encountered by ordinary women are not here in Guan Zhilin's place. Compared with the regret that no one inherits the hundreds of millions of family property in time and space, all the troubles in childbearing are nothing. What's more, from the early stage to the late stage of having children, you can have the joy that work and career can't replace. Watching the baby grow up is happy! Now that Li Changsheng is here to save her fate, of course he has to help her realize a dream that was not realized in her original time and space, to be a mother. In this time and space, Guan Zhilin will not create such a bad relationship again. Without such grievances, it should be smooth, and she will become a mother naturally. .