Chapter 117 My Dad Seems to Have Been Possessed "Fang Wei, it's your turn! It's your turn!" Xu Cailing quickly patted Fang Wei. Fang Wei was listening. At this moment, they were talking about commending outstanding students, and Fang Wei was naturally one of them. "…Among them, Fang Wei from our class is the monitor of Class 755. He not only performs well in daily class management, but also achieved excellent results in this midterm exam. With a total score of , he ranked first in the entire grade." The parents in the class also cooperated by applauding. Fang Wei secretly observed his father's reaction. Fang Xianfeng was smiling brightly at this moment, sitting in his seat with his back straight, and the expression on his face inexplicably had a kind of funny feeling like "Wang Yousheng's smile" in "Drawing Sword". "Hahaha, look how happily your dad is laughing, and Uncle Fang is so proud..." Xu Cailing also found it funny.
Maybe this is what is called a long face. Although studying is for his own benefit and Fang Wei understands this, to some extent, he also hopes that his good grades can make his parents proud. After all, at their age, the only thing that can make them proud is perhaps his performance. "...Of course, in addition to Fang Wei, other students in our class also performed very well in this exam. Their average score was the highest in the whole grade. Among them, Liu Zhiyi ranked second in the grade with a score of 746, and Wang Yushan ranked..." "Zhiyi, it's your turn! It's your turn!" Xu Cailing quickly patted Liu Zhiyi again. To be honest, Liu Zhiyi was not too surprised by such a result. After all, she was still beaten by Fang Wei! She was a little nervous and secretly observed her grandfather's reaction. In fact, Liu Liangxun was already quite satisfied with his granddaughter's performance. Hearing Teacher Wen's praise, a smile appeared on his face. He turned around and looked outside the classroom, and his eyes met his granddaughter's. He smiled and nodded. Perhaps only he himself knows how difficult it is for Zhiyi to maintain such stable and excellent results after going through so many things in this year. Even before school started, he was mentally prepared for his grades to drop. But he didn't expect that Zhiyi still gave him a big surprise. Seeing that his granddaughter's studies were not affected too much and even made steady progress, Liu Liangxun was completely relieved. He had also been a teacher on the island, so he naturally knew how difficult it was to get such results. As for why he was not first, we can only say that this young man Fang Wei was indeed unexpectedly outstanding. This is a good thing. Zhiyi now has his own friends and seems to have adapted to his current living environment. People seek good friends and phoenixes roost in good trees. As an elder, I am naturally happy to see Zhiyi having such an excellent group of friends around him. Wen Susu commended the top ten students in the class one by one, but she also did not forget to commend those students who had made great progress. "...Xu Cailing, Fang Yuansheng, Guo Peiling...these students have also made great progress, improving by more than ten places compared to their entrance exam rankings!" Now it was Fang Wei and Liu Zhiyi's turn to pat Cai Ling:
"Cai Ling, it's your turn! It's your turn!" "hey-hey……" Xu Cailing was a little shy and secretly raised her eyes to glance at her father who was sitting in her seat. Xu Zhiyuan was in a good mood at the moment. Although his daughter's grades were not as outstanding as Fang Weizhiyi's, she was ranked 15th in the class and 45th in the grade, which was better than her sister Caiwei's academic performance. Cailing's playful personality doesn't seem to have changed much on weekdays, and she's like a tomboy all day long, but Xu Zhiyuan can also see that Cailing has become much more serious about her studies since entering junior high school. While having dinner that day, she inexplicably told them that she planned to take the entrance exam to No. 1 Middle School. Occasionally when I passed by her room, I saw her lying by the window, studying with Fang Wei next door. Although the old couple were not good at giving praise or encouragement, they noticed the changes in their daughter. Now at the parents' meeting, seeing his daughter busy helping out and hearing Teacher Wen praising her at the podium, Xu Zhiyuan couldn't help feeling gratified. He turned his head and met Cai Ling's eyes at the window. For the first time ever, Xu Zhiyuan raised his hand and gave her a thumbs-up. Xu Cailing: “???” The girl was stunned and didn't come to her senses for a long time. "Cai Ling, Cai Ling?" "what?" "What's wrong? Why are you in a daze?" "My dad seems to have been possessed by someone!!" "what??" "He just gave me a thumbs-up! He never does that!" "..." Fang Wei was both angry and amused. Was this considered a blessing in disguise? Instead, it made Cai Ling lose confidence. …… "…The results and performance of the above students are worthy of praise and learning. Of course, the good results of our class this time are also the result of the joint efforts of all students. In order to achieve more satisfactory results in the high school entrance examination and get into a better school, not only the students have to work hard, but the school and parents also need to provide sufficient help and support." "Next, I would like to invite Fang Wei's parents to come to the stage and share with us their experiences and insights on family education." "Mr. Fang, do you have any experience in family education that you can share with other parents?" After Wen Susu finished speaking on the podium, she looked at Fang Xianfeng who was sitting in the audience with a smile. In fact, she herself was also quite curious about how Fang Xianfeng taught on a daily basis. How could he teach such a student that she could not find any fault with? Whether it is studying, dealing with people, or working efficiency, Fang Wei seems too perfect, far exceeding his peers.
In addition to Wen Susu, other parents were also curious. They all went to the same school, the same class, and had the same teacher, but they all got different scores. Was it really because of the students themselves? Of course, there was also the influence of family. If Fang Wei's family was a family of scholars, it would be fine, but they all came from ordinary families. When it comes to children's family education, all the parents listened attentively and applauded enthusiastically. Fang Xianfeng never thought that there would be such a thing at the parents' meeting! ! Faced with the curious, envious and admiring eyes of Teacher Wen and other parents, as well as the warm applause in the classroom, Fang Xianfeng's sense of pride was about to overflow! Even at this age, he has never been so dazzling. It's all thanks to that brat at home, who allowed him to experience speaking on stage and sharing his experience at his old age? ! After feeling proud, my heart skipped a beat... He quickly searched through his mind for experiences in education, but after searching for a long time, he still couldn't find any experience at all! I don’t know how this brat is so outstanding! It's like this after raising him for a while, what else can he do? I wanted to decline this rare opportunity to speak, but I was reluctant to do so. Faced with the crowd's eager gazes and warm applause, Fang Xianfeng stood up and walked up to the podium. Looking at the other parents in the audience, he, as a businessman who is best at dealing with people, actually became a little nervous. "I am Fang Wei's parent." “It’s an honor to speak here.” Fang Xianfeng tried hard to search his mind for the images of speaking on TV, trying his best to ensure that he would not make a fool of himself. The parents in the classroom listened quietly and curiously; Fang Wei, who was outside the classroom, also looked at the old man on the podium with great interest. As a person involved, he was very curious about what kind of "education experience" his father would say. "that……" After a brief opening statement, Fang Xianfeng felt a little stuck. "Family education..." "I think……" "This is very important. As a family, education is definitely an indispensable part..." "As for how each family educates their children, each family has different situations. What I want to emphasize is that family education is the top priority and must not be taken lightly..." Fang Wei: “……???” No, Dad, what are you talking about! You keep repeating these two sentences. You have watched too many speeches by leaders on TV, right? All nonsense? ! But the parents in the audience listened quite seriously. Even though it was all nonsense, isn’t that how leaders usually speak? So they felt there was something to it! "When it comes to family education, I think the most important thing is care!" After talking for a long time, there is finally a word that seems to be able to be interpreted. Wen Susu quickly analyzed: "Care? Mr. Fang, do you mean love and care?"
"Yes! Teacher Wen is right!" "That's true. What Mr. Fang said makes sense. Family is the cradle of children's growth. An environment full of love and care is the cornerstone of their mental health." "Also... you need to let go properly!" "Let go? Oh! Mr. Fang said that we should focus on cultivating children's independence and sense of responsibility, right?" "……right!" Fang Xianfeng's eyes lit up. It was true that the words spoken by educated people were different. No wonder his little boy grew up so well. This did not mean that he should leave him alone, but rather cultivate his independence and sense of responsibility! Fang Xianfeng suddenly felt confident. Fang Wei found it funny, he didn't expect that his dad would find him and give him the door. …… It was barely enough to fool people. Fang Xianfeng didn't shamelessly continue to share those unfounded "educational experiences" and instead recommended: "Well, why don't you let Uncle Liu come up and tell us a few words! Uncle Liu was my teacher back then. His granddaughter Liu Zhiyi also did very well this time. Zhiyi's father was the first college student in our county to be admitted to university. I believe that the experience Uncle Liu shares must be more thoughtful than what I say!" After hearing what Fang Xianfeng said, other parents, including Wen Susu, realized that Liu Zhiyi’s grandfather was actually an old teacher! Warm applause broke out, and Liu Liangxun had no choice but to go on stage and say a few words on behalf of the student he had taught. For such an old teacher, what he says at the podium is still quite influential. When it comes to how to develop children's learning abilities, Liu Liangxun is really very experienced, and he shared his experience without reservation, in a detailed and thoughtful manner. It can be seen that many parents below the podium are taking notes frantically. Even Wen Susu, who was listening quietly at the side, nodded repeatedly. Perhaps only someone like Uncle Liu, who had been both a teacher and a parent, would better understand the way of education. After sharing his educational experience, Liu Liangxun sighed and smiled: "In fact, what I want to share with you most today is not about education, but about the growth of children themselves." "After going through some things, I realized that sometimes grades are not the only criterion for evaluating children. Every child is a unique individual. We should respect their personality and choices and not blindly impose our own ideas on them. I am a grandfather and you are parents. We actually have the same idea. We hope that children can become excellent, but in addition, their health and happiness are the most important." "I'm old now, and I don't have many plans for the rest of my life. As long as Zhiyi can live happily, freely do what she wants, and be healthy and happy, my mission as an old man will be accomplished." "Thank you all for listening to me nagging for so long. Teacher Wen, please continue." Liu Liangxun smiled, made a brief gesture, and slowly walked down from the podium. There was warm applause in the class. For a while. Apart from the applause, everyone was silent. Including Fang Wei, Cai Ling and Zhiyi outside the classroom. Of course, Liu Zhiyi heard what his grandfather had just said. The girl's eyes were red, and her body seemed to be surrounded by a soft warmth. She really feels lucky and happy to have such a grandfather who loves her.
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