Lin Weihua felt strange. Didn't they make an appointment to eat stew in an iron pot together? So he sent a message to Su Tang, but no one responded. Lin Yi, who was far away in S city, received a message from his mother while eating. He saw that his mother said that he had talked with his father and would not let his father affect his work and life again. Lin Yi thought that he had indeed not received any messages urging marriage from his father and mother in the past two days. When he just graduated, he chose to stay in S city and did not listen to his mother's advice to take any national or provincial examinations. Even though my mother was dissatisfied, she was out of reach because of the long distance, never traveled far alone, and was afraid of riding in a car. Later, he only kept enough of his monthly salary to cover expenses, and saved the rest. After working for a year, he signed up for various tour groups for his parents, just hoping that they would have something to do and stop interfering in his life. . But my mother was always reluctant to let go of the tiring and well-paying job of housekeeping. After playing according to his arrangement for two years, she never wanted to leave. He had no feelings for his father. After all, his father had missed too much in his growth, so his mother didn't go and he didn't continue to repay his father. Later, the two of them didn't know what stimulated them, and they unanimously forced him to get married and have children. Since he was twenty-five years old, his parents would send various short videos and compositions urging marriage every day.
There are also various books and news about the consequences of being alone and old without getting married and having children. I found it annoying at first, but then I got used to it. When I was tired from work, I would just click on it and watch it for entertainment. Anyway, as long as you ignore it and adjust well, it doesn't matter what your parents do. Fatherly love and motherly love were something he had not expected since his freshman year in high school. Lin Yi felt that he was open-minded, but every time he heard the news that his mother was sick or unwell, he couldn't help but worry even if he knew that she might be deceiving him. He knew how hard it was for his mother to raise him, and he also saw how her mother picked him up and dropped him off rain or shine when he was studying, so he always felt sorry for his mother. Sometimes he feels that his mother is very good, and sometimes he feels that his mother is not so good. The conflicting psychology was the source of his pain. Lin Yi sometimes thought that it would be great if his mother was as overbearing as his father, so that he could remain indifferent with peace of mind. Just like this time, she was obviously the main force in urging the marriage, but now she turned around and told him that she had had a heart-to-heart talk with his father and would no longer urge him to get married or interfere in his life. This reminded Lin Yi of the apology words his mother sent the night before. Could it be that my mother was really hit by his words that day and suddenly sobered up? "Lin Yi..." Hearing his colleague's voice, Lin Yi took back his thoughts and stopped thinking about things at home. Naturally, I didn’t see that in the family group with grandma and grandpa, the aunt and grandma shifted their discussion from New Year matters to his marriage and childbirth. Su Tang also saw the family group information while having lunch. Her sister was in the group asking Xiao Yi when he would get married. Her mother also echoed her sister, saying that now that Xiao Yi has a stable job, it's time to consider getting married, otherwise he won't be able to find a partner when he gets older. Eldest sister: "Although Linlin is not married, she still has a boyfriend. Both of them are unmarriage-minded. I also respect young people's ideas, as long as they have a partner in the future. But Xiao Yi is different. He is almost thirty, has no girlfriend, and is struggling at work. As a mother, you have to plan for him. " Mom: "@苏棠your eldest sister is right. Xiao Yi is indeed old. When your father and I were the same age, your sister was already in elementary school. When you were the same age, Xiao Yi was already five or six years old. You He Weihua, don't just care about your own happiness and not care about your children, how can there be such irresponsible parents." Looking at the words of his mother and eldest sister, Su Tang remembered that Lin Yigang had not been working for long and signed up tour groups for them every year. Later, his mother said that she and her husband put a lot of pressure on Lin Yi.
In addition, she also felt that making money was important, so she did not continue to visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. Now think about it, they weren't just doing it for Xiao Yi at that time. Su Tang did not reply, but looked at the eldest sister and continued: "Mom is right, little sister, you really need to pay attention to Xiao Yi's love life. If you don't have the right person over there, tell me. I happen to have more time. You can go to the Dating Corner in the park to help Xiao Yi ask. How can someone who is almost 30 years old still be single? Your mother-in-law must be anxious too. I heard she hasn’t been home for several months. Maybe she is anxious about this matter. Xiao Yi is the same, and he is not considerate at all. It’s not easy for parents. " Fu Lin: "@苏民, just talk about Xiaoyi. Why do you involve me? We young people have our own ideas about whether to get married and when to get married. We have our own rhythm. You don't have to worry about it." When Su Min saw her daughter's reply, her heart skipped a beat. She forgot that she had a daughter in the group. Her eighth mother was protecting her. Her sister and brother-in-law were used to swallowing their anger and didn't dare to argue with her. Her husband always ignored them. The only thing that matters is the little goblin outside and the little goblin’s precious son. Only her daughter would not follow her regardless of her face. Su Min felt a little uncomfortable being humiliated by her daughter in the group. Then, she saw her sister speak again: "Yes, Linlin is right. Young people have their own ideas, so we don't need to worry about it." "Sister, Mom, although we are older, Linlin and Xiaoyi have seen a broader world than we do. Their ideas are already different from ours, so we should not interfere with their choices." "I have thought clearly now. As long as the children are healthy and happy, there is nothing to worry about whether to get married or have children." Looking at the text sent by her sister, Su Min was very surprised. Is this her sister, the taciturn sister?
When did my sister become so good at talking? When Fu Lin saw her aunt's words, although she didn't know what her specific thoughts were, she at least relented and stopped forcing her to get married. This meant that during the Chinese New Year this year, there was one less person on the front line of forcing marriage. She breathed a sigh of relief and continued to post in the group: "Mom, haven't you and grandma always wanted to travel to country C and see the palace? When the time comes, I will issue the air tickets and you can go together. Look at auntie, she just travels a lot, that’s why she’s so open-minded, you have to learn from auntie. " Su Min and Su's mother saw it and thought in unison, should they imitate Su Tang? Do you want to follow Su Tang's example and only look at face, easily handing over your life to a cowardly man, and then not stop the loss in time, and live in embarrassment for the rest of your life? Although they didn't know why their youngest daughter changed, the two of them were successfully attracted by Fu Lin's talk about traveling to country C. They really want to go abroad, but they have never been able to go due to various reasons. Now that they are older, they don't want to go that much. They just want to see more of the outside world while they can still go.