The two children listened to Su Tang's words very carefully and promised that they would do better next time. After eating, Su Tang took her two children downstairs for a walk. In fact, she and her husband often took their children downstairs for a walk after meals. Even though she was busy in the hospital, her husband insisted on taking the children to exercise, but the atmosphere at that time was not as warm as it is now. Although it was only May, the sun was still quite strong at noon. Su Tang took her two children for a walk in the shade, met her husband's colleagues, and chatted for a while before taking her children home for a lunch break. When the two children took a lunch break, Su Tang went to work in the study. Neither she nor her husband had the habit of taking a lunch break. Even if they had to take a break, they would just sit on a chair and close their eyes for about ten minutes. However, she did go to bed early at night, and her husband was used to going to bed late and getting up early. Su Tang thought about it, and sent all the education cases she had compiled to her husband, and sincerely suggested that he communicate more with colleagues in education. Anyway, he works in a normal college, and most of his colleagues around him are engaged in education. They must have their own unique insights into how to teach children and parent-child relationships. When Li Changhe received the email from his wife, he had just met with the principal of the training institution. The principal asked him to stay longer this time, but he still had a job at the school and could not stay long. As soon as he returned to the hotel, he started checking the emails sent by his wife. After watching the morning surveillance, he found that his two children were very happy with his wife's changes. He suddenly felt a little confused. He remembered that when he was young, he didn't seem to be as happy as his daughter and son. His parents had always taught him to restrain his desires.
He didn't understand, but because he did something that his parents didn't like, they would silently condemn him with cold eyes. Over time, he discovered that likes and dislikes are also a type of desire. His parents didn't want him to laugh and wanted him to be reserved. He looked at the smiles of his son and daughter, twitched the corners of his lips, and found that he was no longer good at smiling. Looking at his wife's suggestions, he didn't know whether he should make changes, but he still felt that his previous educational philosophy was right. Didn't he come here the same way?
Without the strict requirements of his parents, he would not be what he is today. Life cannot always be happy. If a child is happy now, he will definitely have no expectations for life because of his own incompetence and failure when he grows up. But even though he thought so, Li Changhe still fully respected his wife's opinion, opened the friend list, clicked on the dialog box, and started editing the message: "I have a question about parent-child relationship that I want to ask you!" After his colleague asked him to say two words, Li Changhe hesitated for a moment and typed: "I have a friend..." After sending it, he saw that the other person was typing, and he clicked on the email sent by his wife, which contained various social news. A master's degree student from a prestigious school could not bear the pressure from his parents and committed suicide after graduation. A first-grade child sought help from his teacher because of his parents' repressive education. However, despite the counseling and intervention from the school's psychological teacher, he still chose to end his life by jumping off a building. Some children become tired of studying due to the pressure of study and high expectations from their parents, and eventually suffer from schizophrenia... Looking at the 103-page ppt, Li Changhe had reason to suspect that his wife got up early this morning and was busy in the study just for this purpose. In order to make this ppt, she actually sacrificed her sleep time and lunch break at night. Li Changhe suddenly felt that his wife was very serious this time. What should I do? He seemed to have a conflict with his wife. Li Changhe found another colleague of his and wanted to ask him about marriage. But when he was about to send a message, he suddenly realized that this colleague was very opposed to the institution of marriage. He believed that the institution of marriage deprived and controlled women's reproductive rights. Thinking of this, Li Changhe deleted the typed messages word by word, and decided to solve this family crisis on his own. At this time, his colleague also responded to the message. Li Changhe saw the message sent by his colleague and found that his colleague said that he was worried about the mental state of his friend's child. Li Changhe chatted with his colleagues some more and then closed the chat box. At this time, his mother sent a message, asking about Yueyue and Dongdong's recent results, and told him not to relax in his children's studies. As a parent, no matter how busy or tired you are at work, you must be responsible for your children and not let them become useless people.
useless? Li Changhe stared at these two words. What is the criterion for a mother to be useful or useless? Is he a useful person now? Li Changhe began to read the cases sent by his wife again, reading them word for word, and then read relevant reports. After Su Tang sent the email, he looked at the time and started doing his work again. When the clock hand pointed to two o'clock in the afternoon, the two children had not come out of the room yet. Su Tang was afraid that the children would take a nap for too long and affect their sleep at night, so he planned to wake up the two children. Just as he knocked on the door, Yueyue opened the door. Su Tang saw that the quilt seemed untouched and there were exercises on the desk. It's a Mathematical Olympiad question. She thought of something and took her daughter to knock on Dongdong's door. Dongdong also didn't take a nap. There were also Mathematical Olympiad questions on his desk. "Why don't you take a nap? You went to bed late last night and you haven't taken a nap today. How can you feel energetic in the afternoon? If you don’t get enough sleep, you won’t grow taller. " This was the first time Yueyue came to her brother's room. Her brother's room was similar to hers, with blue walls, light-colored sheets and quilts, and the desk was placed exactly the same. But the difference is that there are footballs, badmintons and table tennis in her brother's room, while there are bamboo flutes, skipping ropes and badmintons in her room. No wonder her younger brother got first place in the exam this time. It turned out that his younger brother usually worked so hard. Yueyue suddenly felt that taking naps before was a waste of time. "Mom, I didn't study yesterday and I didn't study this morning. I couldn't sleep. As soon as I lay in bed, I thought about not completing the tasks yesterday and today, and I panicked." Yueyue said. Dongdong also said: "I managed to get first place in the exam, but that's just the first place in the school. I want to get good results in the Mathematical Olympiad next year." What Dongdong didn't say was that he wanted to get the Zhiduoxing scholarship at the end of the semester, which was worth 3,000 yuan, but there was only one spot for each grade. He can only get this scholarship if he ranks first in the final exam. He wants to use this scholarship to buy birthday gifts for his parents, table tennis rackets for his grandpa, and badminton rackets for his grandma. As for his grandparents, Dongdong didn't think about it. His grandparents didn't like him, but only liked his sister. No matter what he gave them, they wouldn't be too happy, and they would just feel that he didn't put his mind on serious matters. Dongdong thought about getting first place in the exam this time and told her grandparents about it later. Instead of encouraging him, his grandparents criticized him for not being complacent just because he got good grades in a mid-term exam. You should be calm and calm without being arrogant or impetuous. Thank you everyone for your votes and support~