After eating and drinking enough, Fang Yuan did not let Zhong Xiaoqin go. Since the other party said to answer him well, Fang Yuan gave her this opportunity. In reality, Zhong Xiaoqin also had a slight reaction. The system has said that the power of dream creation has a certain chance to affect reality, and the dream is too intense. Zhong Xiaoqin's husband, Chen Yangyu, lay on the bed like a dead pig and fell asleep. Poorly, he didn't know that although his wife shared the same bed with him, it was a different dream. Because the dream is too real, it affects the reality. The result was that Zhong Xiaoqin kept yelling "good big brother", "Dean Fang Yuan", and "lighter" tiger-wolf words, and also cooperated with some unspeakable and ostentatious movements. After a long time, Chen Yu would naturally notice that he was just sleeping to death, not really dead. Sensing Zhong Xiaoqin's strangeness and what the other party said, "Fang Yuan is such a big brother", Chen Yu suddenly became furious, feeling that he had been cheated on, and that Zhong Xiaoqin had cheated on her marriage. As a result, needless to say, the two had a big fight and broke up unhappy.
In the hospital, Fang Yuan woke up before dawn, because the dream was interrupted in the middle, and he speculated that Zhong Xiaoqin might have woken up. After waking up, I couldn't fall back asleep. So, he began to think about Zhong Xiaopian. Zhong Xiaoqin's fifth husband is Chen Yu, also known as Chen Yangyu, because he likes to raise fish and regards fish as more important than his wife, so he got this name. Male, 33 years old, an editor-director of a local TV station in Shanghai, with an introverted "seven-four-three" personality, likes to raise fish, not bad in height and appearance, owns a house and a car, and works hard. This condition is believed to be very popular in the blind date market, so in the play he married Zhong Xiaoqin, a lively, enthusiastic and cat-loving local girl. At present, there is no explanation in the play how long they have known each other to get married. In view of the clue of the blind date, Chen Yu felt that he needed marriage to leave his original family, and Zhong Xiaoqin’s uninitiated personality traits that rarely make decisions by himself can be judged. It is very likely that Zhong Xiaoqin's parents said that Chen Yu is so good, marrying him will definitely be happy, so the two got married. Married for three years, outsiders seem to think this is a match made in heaven, but the days are their own, and outsiders don't know if they are comfortable or not Chen Yu, the island is surrounded by water, alone in the water, only accompanied by fish, but unable to communicate. Chen Yu is lonely in his heart. Even if he has a family, we can't see what hobbies he has besides raising fish. In Zhong Xiaoqin's eyes, fish are more important than her. Chen Yu's patience with fish far exceeds his concern for Zhong Xiaoqin. Regarding the child, before the fetal arrest, although the two parties had some conflicts, after deciding to give birth, Chen Yu also accepted it, and hoped that the child would be called Xiaodao, which showed that he had thought about it. You can't say that Chen Yu doesn't love Zhong Xiaoqin, night lights, ordering songs on the radio, ordering restaurants to celebrate birthdays, and planning to give half of the house to each other after divorce, all of which are manifestations of love. As for only washing his own clothes, it was also because Zhong Xiaoqin's silk shirt was damaged before. This is not to excuse him, but to show that he cares about Zhong Xiaoqin's words. It's just that Chen Yu felt that his love was 10 points, but he didn't expect Zhong Xiaoqin to be 100 points here. Take the cat and the door lock as an example. The plot has developed to the point where the two quarrel a lot because of the cat and the door lock. The lock on the door exemplified the way they saw things. Zhong Xiaoqin felt that the lock was difficult to open and had to be changed. Chen Yu felt that the door lock was fine, and it could be opened with a little effort, so why did he need to change it? This also just shows that Chen Yu is a person who is afraid of trouble. Zhong Xiaoqin was right in saying that the reason why Chen Yu didn't want to bother others was actually because she didn't want others to bother herself. Chen Yu is a good person, but being in a marriage will inevitably make the other party feel depressed. In a word, it would be a tragedy for anyone to marry Chen Yu. Then Zhong Xiaoqin, Zhong Xiaoqin is an obedient girl who grew up under the care of her parents. As an only child, she has won all the love and affection of her parents. girl who grew up in love The most able to perceive the love of others, and give feedback of their own love. Zhong Xiaoqin, she loves this world and her own life, even if she chooses to divorce in the early stage, she is basically unwilling to endure a marriage without love. Zhong Xiaoqin not only wants to have love, but is also willing to give love, which has a lot to do with her parents' upbringing. Parents love her, and she has learned to love herself and others. Perhaps many parents hope to raise their daughters to look like Zhong Xiaoqin, at least she will have a happy life, and there will never be a lack of love in her life, even if she lacks it temporarily, she can find it back and fill it up again my own life. Why did Zhong Xiaoqin choose Chen Yu as her partner? Why can they reap happiness together, it starts with their original family. For Zhong Xiaoqin, she grew up relying on her parents since she was a child, so she hopes to find a husband who loves her and can rely on her to continue her princess life. For Chen Yu, he had no father since he was a child. Although he had a mother, the mother did not fulfill her role well. Due to the lack of parents, Chen Yu could only bring up his younger brother a little bit, and acted as his father and mother Chen Yu said that he got married to find a safe haven, and home is a safe haven. He should be very envious of Zhong Xiaoqin's native family in his heart, and he also hopes to get the complete love of his parents. In his married life with Zhong Xiaoqin, he played the role of wife in the traditional sense. He took care of all kinds of trivial things at home, and still spoiled Zhong Xiaoqin as a "princess" who didn't care about daily necessities. Chen Yu's becoming like this has a lot to do with his long-term care of his younger brother's growth. After all, taking care of his younger brother's growth is a trivial and long-term process. He has continued this impulse of "wanting to take care of" into his married life. The reason why he chose Zhong Xiaoqin is Zhong Xiaoqin's dependence on him. Zhong Xiaoqin's "want to rely on" and Chen Yu's "want to take care of" form a very stable relationship, but this relationship is not enough to form a happy marriage. The worst thing is the dependence of "want to rely on parents", It is not the same as "wanting to take care of my younger brother" care. Their marriage was in crisis because they did not handle this "difference" well. The process they went through from divorce to remarriage was to find and make up for this "difference" that only belonged to the two of them. This difference is the sharing of the bits and pieces of life with each other, the continuous appreciation and support for the other half, the willingness to spend time and energy for the other half, and the existence of the other party in their own life plans~~Bless them! Why can Zhong Xiaoqin break through herself? Not to mention Zhong Xiaoqin’s girlfriends and parents’ support from the outside world, the most important thing is that there is an upward force in her heart. The most important source of this power is the 30-year-old and stable life given by her parents. like. This power of love can support her to transform herself when she is frustrated, find her inner voice, take action, find answers, and regain her life. In comparison, after the divorce, Chen Yu's performance was more depressed. He lacked the power to love himself. He was used to taking care of his parents and brother's life by himself. No one helped him for a long time, which made him forget "The ability to ask others for help", I would rather live as an isolated island, and it is easier to fall into depression when encountering setbacks. However, Chen Yu was able to successfully study in such a family, take the civil service exam, and obtain real estate in Shanghai. Although he lacks the support of love and is more likely to fall into depression, he can eventually get out of it smoothly. Two people who are looking for the true meaning of marriage come together again in the transformation supported by each other's inner strength. After making up for that "difference", their marriage exudes a more charming brilliance. Let's talk about Gu Jia. When it comes to Zhong Xiaoqin, you can't avoid her. She often gives Zhong Xiaoqin advice. Although many parents hope to train their daughters to be Zhong Xiaoqin and have a simple and happy life, many daughters are eager to become Gu Jia. Gu Jia is smart, motivated, and a master at solving problems. She is a perfectionist and takes care of her family and life well. Although I got divorced later, I was able to quickly resolve disputes, clear up my mood, and start again. This courage alone is very commendable. I think of the good sentence in Zhiwu, "I know you are not a person who is good without fish and shrimp." Gu Jia is such a woman. After seeing a beautiful marriage, how can she bear to face the pain in the next few decades. Gu Jia's character development should be related to her growth experience. When she was 14 years old, her mother passed away, but the good news is that she has enjoyed 14 years of high-quality maternal love, and she also understands that if it is not an accident, this maternal love will always accompany her, so Gu Jia also grew up in love girl. This love is one of the important sources that support her to become the beautiful self she is now... Unlike Zhong Xiaoqin, she was forced to learn to be self-reliant at the age of 14 due to her mother's death. Gu Jia should feel lucky. Fortunately, at the age of 14, she already has the potential to be self-reliant. If she is younger, she may suffer more damage. At the age of 14, at an ignorant age, the relationship between Gu Jia and his father has become delicate. Their father and daughter care about each other, but 14-year-old Gu Jia doesn't know how to deal with the trivialities in life with his father, and neither does his father, so getting along will be a little awkward. Gu Jia decided to start a boarding life, but the love between father and daughter has not changed, but has become deeper and more restrained. Her father's love is the stable pillar of her heart. She knows that no matter what happens, as long as her father is still there, this pillar of love will exist. At the beginning of the plot, Gu Jia dreamed that her father was sick and woke up from the dream, which shows the power of this love. At the end of the plot, Gu Jia divorced and took Xu Ziyan to hide in Chashan, which can be regarded as starting a new life with his father. Gu Jia is a person with high and stable self-esteem. Even in the face of the company's bankruptcy, compensation, and the sale of the RV, she did not break her down. She knows her excellence and recognizes her excellence. This self-recognition is powerful and makes her confident. standing. In contrast, Xu Huanshan has unstable high self-esteem. His high self-esteem comes from his self-proclaimed "fireworks designer", and he pursues the arrogance of "fireworks designer" in Mr. Xu's position. He can't say that he is wrong, but he is wrong in his own position. He lost his family because other girls recognized his blue fireworks and satisfied his pride as a designer. His high self-esteem was not stable enough, and he needed more external approval to maintain it. In the end, he produced blue fireworks regardless of the "risk of storage". , resulting in irreparable losses.
Gu Jia's high stability and high self-esteem can also be reflected in the fact that she can handle the affairs of the wife circle well, and can also go deep into hotels, shopping malls, and cafes to sell her "empty camellia" little by little until she sees hope, finds opportunities, and finds Chashan future direction. Many parents hope that their daughter can become Zhong Xiaoqin and live in love, but they are also looking forward to raising their daughter Gu Jia, because of her ability to solve problems, no matter where she goes, this "daughter" will live a good life, Wonderful life. Why does everyone like Gu Jia? Because she has a personality. Blue and yellow are a perfect combination of personality, blue is also very romantic, pays attention to details, and is good at planning, such as squeezing toothpaste, doing yoga, skipping dinner with her husband, and helping her husband pack his luggage. In short, this person is very self-disciplined. Strong action, strong sense of purpose, and liking to make decisions are the specialties of typical yellow characters. With such a good wife and such a self-disciplined person by my side, can I not be prosperous? It is a pity that the combination of blue-yellow and red characters can complement each other, but the reality of is that life is unsatisfactory nine out of ten, not to mention that he is a willful little girl at heart. As for children, they will make mistakes! Just like Xu Huanshan, after he came to his senses, he said that he would spend the rest of his life begging for Gu Jia’s forgiveness. Why? Because they are true love! But these are all jokes to Fang Yuan, Xu Huanshan and Lin Youyou are already out of g He is not qualified to talk about a good man. Since none of them are good people, why not let Fang Yuan protect them and give them a chance to live a second life. He is such a helpful man. To sum it up in one sentence, Zhong Xiaoqin is a standard "salted fish girl": she finds an ordinary job, meets all the needs of her colleagues, will voluntarily give up the once-in-a-lifetime promotion opportunity because of her pregnancy, has no grand goals, and enjoys mediocre happiness. Living in a daze and lazily, without hard work and ambition in life, and not knowing how to refuse, is a pleasing personality. When she just turned 30 and faced a turning point in her marriage, she began to awaken herself and had the courage to break and rebuild her life. On the other hand, Gu Jia is a woman who is knowledgeable and polite, and is strong in everything. A person like Xu Huanshan, who is easygoing with the situation, is not worthy. When two people are together, the ending will only be a collapse. After Xu Huanshan owned Lin Youyou, he immediately couldn't think of leaving, and he showed resistance in the face of Gu Jia's control. After experiencing great changes in her family, Gu Jia finally understood that she and Xu Huanshan were not in the same company, and separation was the best result. PS: Ask for collection, recommendation, reward, support, subscription, monthly ticket, comment, evaluation ticket, flowers.