Does Qiu Yingying know Director Bai? Obviously not. At the beginning, Qiu Yingying took the initiative to express her favor to Director Bai. How did Director Bai do it? He sent her a message at midnight saying that he would drop by to attend class together tomorrow. In this regard, Fan Shengmei analyzed: "If the other party is sincere, the invitation text message or phone call must be sent in advance at an appropriate time, leaving room for the girl to think reservedly, and it must never be in the middle of the night." So Director Bai must have planned it in advance. It would be insincere to send invitations to others at midnight, but Qiu Yingying didn't think about it at all, she simply thought that Supervisor Bai had finally taken a fancy to her. After this time, they formally communicated, and within a few days, Qiu Yingying said that she was going to take care of Risheng. It has not been a month before and after, no matter how much the girl who rented together tried to dissuade him, it will not help. Does she know Supervisor Bai? Obviously not, Qiu Yingying is an ordinary clerk in the company, and Supervisor Bai is a junior supervisor, and there are not many intersections. They haven't been in love for a long time, they usually have to go to work, and they have to go to class on weekends. Calculated in this way, Qiu Yingying doesn't really know the boyfriend in front of her very well. But being impulsive, she actually wanted to live with Director Bai. This is not stupid but stupid. 467
When girls fall in love, when they don't know a person in all aspects, it is a kind of protection for themselves not to rush to live together. The person you are in love with is a devil or an angel, maybe it's in his mind. So for Qiu Yingying's love, I can give the girls the first tip: it's okay to be in love, but be careful when living together. Be even more careful when not fully understanding a person. Second: for friendship reminders between friends, you should seriously consider Qu Xiaoxiao is a bit mean, but she has a vicious eye. The first time she met Director Bai, she knew that the man in front of her was not a good boyfriend. While eating, Qu Xiaoxiao took advantage of everyone's inattention and put a note in Supervisor Bai's pocket. Later, Director Bai's various reactions and practices made everyone call him "Wretched Li". When friends around you are not optimistic about a person, there must be a reason for existence. Maybe I was blinded by a leaf, maybe I was burned out by love, but the words of friends should be seriously considered. After Qiu Yingying knew about Qu Xiaoxiao's actions and Director Bai's actions, she still didn't realize that this was the trick of a "scumbag" man. She anesthetized herself and whitewashed Supervisor Bai, thinking that Qu Xiaoxiao was the source of all crimes. Qiu Yingying didn't understand at all that if there is Qu Xiaoxiao A today, there will be Qu Xiaoxiao B tomorrow. Everyone around her was analyzing Supervisor Bai's problems, but Qiu Yingying insisted on not listening, she kept reminding herself and explaining to those around her: "Director Bai only loves me." People often say "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of your eyes." Qiu Yingying's stupidity is also reflected in not listening to advice. All the harsh advice made her feel that everyone else was jealous of the love she now had. In fact, sometimes, people around you can see the object of your love better than you. Because other people do not have the vision of love, but from the perspective of others. Looking at a person from multiple angles is much more accurate than looking at a person only from the perspective of love. So for Qiu Yingying's love, I can give the second tip to the girls: other people's opinions are of reference value, don't blindly veto your friend's attitude towards your love partner. Office romance is a taboo in many units, and employers have concerns. If you are not particularly outstanding and indispensable to the unit, it is best not to talk about office romance.
Once it is discovered that the job is gone, it will be another major test for the current relationship. After all, the current material, social and economic pressures are high, and it is impossible to "drink enough water with affection" at all. It took Qiu Yingying a lot of effort to find the current job as a clerk. Supervisor Bai is not much older than Qiu Yingying, and it is not easy to be a junior supervisor. If the office romance is discovered by (aicg), maybe Qiu Yingying will leave, or the two of them will leave together. Qiu Yingying didn't think about these things at all, she simply thought that Supervisor Bai was handsome, and in her mouth, when talking about Supervisor Bai, besides being handsome, she couldn't find a second advantage. Later, the two of them fell out in love, and Qiu Yingying made a big fuss in the company, ending the past with both of them being fired. Qiu Yingying had to go to great lengths to find a job again. Qiu Yingying's third tip for girls in love: It is best not to talk about office romances, in case you lose your financial security and the gains outweigh the losses. The three kinds of "stupidity" of a woman in love will not only fail to keep the man you love, but will also be very hurt. Falling in love is a serious matter, girls don't think a boy is handsome, just fall in love with him. If we are already in love, we will see that the other party is inappropriate and stop the loss in time, so as not to cause too much loss. Don't wait until the brakes are not in a hurry to lose your wife and lose your troops. Some people say that there is no reason and logic when facing love. But it is difficult for people without reason and logic to meet beautiful love. Because when they meet someone who makes their heart beat, they don't care about it, and they may end up bruised and bruised. If you don't look at love rationally and logically, and analyze the status quo with a calm head, then some love really won't go far. In "Ode to Joy", Andy said a very good sentence: "It doesn't matter if you are a fool, but it is terrible to be stupid." I hope that every girl will not be blindly impulsive when encountering love. Impulse is the devil, and the devil may kill. The book "Ode to Joy" mainly describes the different love experiences of five girls, as well as their different understandings and views on love. It can be said that each has its own advantages and disadvantages, "Each has its place for us to learn from. If you want to know the love stories of other girls, or want to draw corresponding love experience from them, then read this book. This is a book that describes love in an extremely delicate manner, and some love concepts or love encounters involved in it are indeed worthy of our thinking and vigilance. Read it carefully, it can help us avoid stepping on the pit in love. Although everyone's love is different, there are always some similarities in it. For example, what kind of people are not suitable for love, and what kind of people should stop losses decisively, these can save us from detours in love. Fang Yuan was thinking about Qiu Yingying in his heart, Jiang Nan came over with a cup of hot tea and said, "Dean, let's have a cup of hot tea. "okay." Fang Yuan came back to his senses, but when he raised his hand, he accidentally touched Jiang Nan's arm, and all the scalding hot tea spilled into Fang Yuan's arms. PS: Ask for collection, recommendation, reward, support, reward, subscription, monthly ticket, flowers, comments, evaluation tickets.