"I just finished eating with my mother in the mall and saw a very cute little sheep doll. It is about 30 centimeters tall and is very suitable for holding. Do you want it?"
An Ran originally wanted to refuse because she basically didn't touch these dolls or buy them.
Maybe it’s because I haven’t played with them since I was a child. When I grow up, it’s hard to understand why some girls like dolls so much.
But she remembered that in her previous life, Dr. Joe Dispenza, an authority on brain science, once said: "Most people spend 70% of their lives fighting for survival under the pressure of life. So they always predict the worst based on past experience. Case.
But among the infinite possibilities in the quantum field, they chose the worst outcome and accepted it with fear. They let their bodies fall into a state of fear.
If you do this for a long time, your body will go into panic without your knowledge.
You can't even predict when it's going to happen because it's already programmed in your subconscious mind.
When you ask people, 'Why are you like this?'
They'll say, 'I'm the way I am because of something that happened to me 15 or 20 years ago. '
What this means from a biological perspective is that they haven't changed since that event happened, and the emotions from that experience tend to be a shock to the body and brain, and people become dependent on that emotional shock, and they Use the problems and dilemmas in life to explain the limitations they place on themselves (which can be understood as excuses for objective reasons), so that they can at least feel something.
So the hardest part of change is not making the same choices as yesterday.
When you decide to make a different choice, be prepared because it will make you uncomfortable, it will feel strange to you, so when a person wants to change, he steps into that river of change and does Makes different choices, and suddenly he doesn't feel the same way anymore.
You are going to stop suffering, stop feeling guilty.
Stop feeling ashamed, complaining or blaming others.
No more making excuses or feeling sorry for yourself.
The same thoughts will lead you to make the same choices, lead you to repeat the same actions, create the same experiences, and therefore the same emotions.
If you sit down and start thinking, conjure up some worst-case scenario in your mind about the future, and start feeling the emotions that come from that event (scenario), your body can't tell whether those emotions are coming from a real-world experience or from a real-world experience. Created by imagination alone, most people constantly confirm their emotional state.
So because it's always been set up that way, the slave becomes the master, and when that person suddenly steps into unknown territory, they rather feel guilty and miserable because they can at least predict it, and for most Being in the unknown is a scary thing for people, because the unknown is uncertain.
But actually the body is more powerful than the mind because it's been programmed that way, so the slave becomes the master, 'Well, I can't predict my future, I'm in the unknown. '
So, I always answer, 'The best way to predict the future is to create it, not from the known, but from the unknown.' '"
It’s called reshaping the brain and changing your life! In this case, what would happen if you try another way of life?
"Can you buy two for me? I want to give one to grandma as well."
"It's pink, are you sure your grandma wants it?"
"I'll call grandma and ask." An Ran hesitated.
"Okay, I'll wait for your call."
After hanging up Jane's phone, An Ran called Grandma An. She called the landline. The phone rang for a while before she heard Grandma An's voice.
"where?"
"Grandma, it's me." "Why did you call me so late? Are you thinking about the persimmons? Don't worry, I've picked them up well."
"No." An Ran said with a smile, "It's a classmate of mine. He saw a very cute little pink sheep doll when he was in the mall. He said it was very suitable for holding. He asked me if I wanted one. I wanted one and wanted to buy it for you. One, but I don’t know if you want it.”
"Little pink sheep." Grandma An's happy laughter came over the phone, "Of course I want what you gave me."
Hearing Grandma An's joyful voice, An Ran was also very happy, "I asked him to bring one for each of us, and I will send it to you on the weekend."
"Okay, I'll ask Aqiu to prepare delicious food for you on Saturday and wait for you at home."
"It's the weekend. I have to do my homework at home on Saturday, and I have to clean up the room after I'm done. I won't be free to see you until Sunday."
"It's okay, it's okay."
After An Ran hung up the phone with Grandma An, she called Shi Jian and said, "Grandma and I each have one. Please buy two for me. How much does it cost? I'll give them to you tomorrow."
After picking up another piece of wool from An Jing, An Ran felt that she could reward herself.
On the first floor of the shopping mall where people were coming and going, Shi Jian didn't say anything about money. She hung up her phone, picked up the two pink little sheep dolls on the shelf in front of her and threw them into the basket at her feet.
"I want it too, let's buy three." Shi's mother said to Shi Jian in time while admiring another carrot doll.
"Are you sure you want it? You're not joking?"
Shi Jian always knew that her mother liked to go shopping, buy things, and visit toy stores.
When he was a child, she would often take home the dolls she liked to play with on the pretext of buying them for him to play with, but she has not bought many of them in recent years.
"I really want to." Shi's mother said firmly, "Can you still joke if you like it?"
……
After ending the call with Shi Jian, An Ran felt more relaxed.
Start by focusing on packing your wardrobe.
Giving up is something that can really heal people's hearts. If the things you give up can be exchanged for money or other meanings, it will make people feel more relaxed and happy.
However, this is also an immersive but time-consuming thing. One night is not enough to leave her room.
She decided to start by cutting off her shoes and bags.
Clothes are the most time-consuming, so leave them to the weekend.
If you know clearly what you want and don't want, you will be able to stop quickly.
Within two hours, An Ran was stunned by the two pairs of bags and shoes in front of her, thinking about what to do with these things.
When she thought about this problem, she couldn't help but think about the time when online shopping would be developed in a few years. She could just lie in bed and click on her mobile phone to buy or sell anything. Unlike now, she had to find a place, and when she found a place, she had to find a car to haul things. Get rid of it in the past.
But I have already made plans to exchange these things that I will not need in the future into money. Even if it is a little troublesome, it is something that must be done. 1314(End of this chapter)